By using this site you agree to the following. It is deliberately short, because the site does very little.
1. Adults only
This site is intended for people aged 18 or over. It discusses dating and relationships between adults. If you are under 18, please leave.
2. General information, not advice
Everything here is general information and opinion. It is not therapy, counselling, medical advice, legal advice, or a professional relationship of any kind. It cannot account for your circumstances, your history, your safety or the other people involved.
If you are in an unsafe situation, contact a qualified professional or a support service rather than relying on a web page. Emergency services first if there is immediate danger.
3. No professional relationship
Reading this site does not create a duty of care, a confidential relationship, or any obligation on the part of the author to respond, advise or assist.
4. No warranty
The site is provided “as is”. No guarantee is made that it is accurate, complete, current, or suitable for any particular purpose. Advice about people is not a science, and what works in one situation may be unhelpful or wrong in another.
5. Limitation of liability
To the fullest extent permitted by law, the author is not liable for any loss or damage arising from use of, or reliance on, this site or its content. This includes decisions about relationships, dates, messages, or other people.
6. Your conduct
Nothing on this site is a licence to harass, pressure, deceive or coerce anyone. If you use this material to pursue someone who has said no, you are acting against the plain meaning of every page here.
7. Intellectual property
The text is original work and remains the copyright of the author. You may quote short extracts with a link back. Do not republish whole pages, sell the content, or pass it off as your own.
8. Third-party links
Any external links are provided for convenience. We do not control those sites and are not responsible for their content or practices.
9. Availability
There is no promise that the site will remain online, unchanged, or free of errors. Pages may be edited or removed at any time without notice.
10. Changes to these terms
These terms may be updated. The current version is the one on this page. Continued use after a change means you accept the updated version.
Last updated: 10 November 2026.