Flirting, for grown-ups.

Practical, plain-spoken advice on flirting, dating and saying what you actually want. Written for adults who would rather be decent than clever.

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How to flirt without being creepy Calibration, compliments that land, and how to take a hint.
Reading signals, and how to check Why no list of signs beats simply asking.
Texting without games Reply like a person. Say what you mean. Handle a no gracefully.
First dates that aren't interviews Low stakes, good questions, a clean ending.
How to ask someone out One sentence, an easy exit, and a plan for the answer.
Questions that actually start a conversation Thirty of them, and the follow-up that does the work.
How to turn someone down kindly Clear is kind — and how to take a no yourself.

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